It was like scratching an itch that had been building up for years. Then, the day before Christmas, the proverbial straw landed. Finally, this ol’ camel scratched in the form of a carefully worded e-mail.
Ahhhh . . . camel crap.
We’ve been shoveling it for days now, with no end in sight. Someday I’ll get around to sharing details, but for now I’ll summarize it this way: Nothing, not even righteous indignation, feels good enough to justify hurting someone you REALLY love. And sometimes even the most justified comeback can have consequences you never intended.
In this case, the easy “Sorry” won’t work. You know, the one-size-fits-all apology married men discovered this eons ago. …
Why not? I offered, and Craig said it would only make things worse. So instead I’ve decided to turn this into a little life lesson, about the importance of keeping one’s saddle clean-swept. Of talking things out before the straws get too thick. Of tending to relationships in the short term, so the occasional bump won’t matter so much in the long term.
This week, on the feast of the Holy Family, I offer this blessing for not-so-holy ones.
Father God, we are all your children.
And sometimes children squabble.
Teach us to play nicely,
and to use our words carefully, kindly, and at just the right time.
In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen!